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進化啦!
想創業
不想打一世工,為他人賺錢
為自己而辛苦畢竟比較值得

三年

給自己一個承諾
給自己一個目標
對自己負責

今朝忙到夜

臨江仙 　(宋) 朱敦儒
堪笑一場顛倒夢，
元來恰似浮雲。
塵勞何事最相親。
今朝忙到夜，
過臘又逢春。
流水滔滔無住處，
飛光忽忽西沉。
世間誰是百年人。
個中須著眼，
認取自家身。

長恨此身非我有，何時忘卻營營。

臨江仙 　(宋) 蘇 軾
夜飲東坡醒復醉，
歸來仿彿三更。
家童鼻息己雷鳴，
敲門都不應，
倚杖聽江聲。
長恨此身非我有，
何時忘卻營營。
夜闌風靜縠紋平，
小舟從此逝，
江海寄餘生。

揀盡寒枝不肯棲

卜算子 　(宋) 蘇 軾

缺月挂疏桐，
漏盡人初靜。
誰見幽人獨來往，
飄渺孤鴻影。

驚起卻回頭，
有恨無人省。
揀盡寒枝不肯棲，
寂寞沙洲冷。

andychui loving u

這個世界上 , 你沒了誰都可以
除了你自己
你為了誰而活下去
你為了什麼而活下去
為什麼要生存
為什麼要死亡
做每一件事都要有原因嗎
為什麼
為什麼
為什麼

領悟

離別 , 顯出相聚的可貴
失去 , 使擁有變得真貴
要懂得珍惜
要學會接受逆境和失敗
突然想起杏林子...

andychui loving u

擁有，只會令自己在失去的時候更難受。　
　

Outcome maximization by close and sincere cooperation

8×8=64
(8-1) ×(8+1)=64 - 1=63
(8-2) ×(8+2)=64 - (1+3)=60
(8-3) ×(8+3)=64 - (1+3+5)=55
(8-4) ×(8+4)=64 - (1+3+5+7)=48
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可見當兩者的距離愈拉愈遠，合作時的力量便愈小。正如兩個一同工作的人，隔閡愈大，便愈容易
吵架，工作效率便愈低。

andychui loving u

李澤厚提出過近現代中國思想的主題是啟蒙與拯救,
啟蒙是啟發民智,如用這角度,上海當然是個接觸西方文明,使中國現代化的窗口
拯救是國難當前,急謀救亡的想法,從這角度,上海的租界以及"華人與狗不得進入"的告示等等當然是國難,國恥的象徵

model answer( by yim sir )

題目云:在意識型態.社會經驗和利益上立場不同的人對上海的總體印象 評價和感受差別挺大: 可以如何理解
應該明確講述哪一些論者持哪一方面的論點
但這部分不宜佔太多時間, 因為只是用以說明你有讀書而已
進而就解釋何以有這種分別
先說不同立場如何影響評價,再看整體宏觀的情況
例如這幾種立場是互相針鋒相對的嗎 ? 還是因時代、政治的變化而分階段演變 ?
如同時代互為針對, 幾種不同的評價,或因"論敵"的存在而走向極端化, 當然也有可能有人提出折衷調和的說法
民國時代, 京派作家對上海的浮華奢靡大抵不太認同, 有所謂京派,海派之爭
但也有不太在乎政治的作家, 只求描繪出都市生活的世相,探索當時的市民生態,如穆時英,張愛玲都是
但上海同時又因自由氣氛而孕育了共產黨
(中共第一次代表大會,在上海舉行)
到49年後,上海的特色, 就是上海的特色被淡化了; 因為資本家,交際花,租界, 燈紅酒綠的生活,在中共統治 都不再出現,上海變得跟別的大城市分別不大
但到改革開放時代, 上海因其歷史,地理,經濟優勢, 自然地再度成為現代化的最前線

andychui loving u==>Aries

加油呀高佬....although sometimes life seems to be harsh and difficult, there should be something making you feel sweet and would like to recall it all the time..... remember the candy and taste the bitter ahead...... everyone is going through the same phase as you and along with you

人生觀

態度就像磁鐵，不論我們的思想是正面抑或是負面的，我們都受到它的牽引。而思想就像輪子一般，使我們朝一個特定的方向前進。雖然我們無法改變人生，但我們可以改變人生觀；雖然我們無法改變環境，但我們可以改變心境。我們無法調整環境來完全適應自己的生活，但可以調整態度來適應一切的環境；畢竟你的生活並非全數由生命所發生的事所決定，而是由你自己面對生命的態度，與你的心靈看待事情的態度來決定。

現實與空想

與其編織遙不可及的美夢，
不如抓住微不足道但實際的現實。
美夢再大，也只是瞬間即逝的肥皂泡；
現實再怎麼渺小，至少是鏗鏘有聲的小石頭。

ONLINE Game

在意識刑態.社會經驗和利益上立場不同的人對上海的總體印象...評價和感受差別挺大:
有視之為紙醉金迷的慾望樂園..
有視之為半殖民的國恥標記..
有視之為時髦生活的典範
有視之為現代草根階層的人間地獄
有視之為妓女
有視之為中西文化交流的試管
可以如何理解或連接這些矛盾的評價和現象之間的關係

the above is one of my exam topics....

CU learning

CU learning = compulsory studying
You are forced to study many many things...通識 ..IT test ..cantonese.putonhua.english's 拼音....
Chinese courses ... English courses...

X !!!

矛盾

Loss of targets in the university....No targets to direct my efforts ...
Studying something i have no interest...

I want to be very brilliant , want to develop my own talents...but i don't have the determination to work hard. I don't want to study study and study...

Joseph said...

I ask not for a lighter burden, but for a broaden shouter.

chee chee said .................

今日好開心ar, 終於攞咗第一個A+!~
我依家目前為止最fei 都係B+
要keep 住個勢!

Pilot said....

無論多難

也能撐下去

Life is hard

chee said:

到目前為止我的功課及test 都係A- grade
want to keep ar

andychui loving u

Don't want to be hurt
Don't want to be depressed
Don't want to be disappointed

I am a weak person...can't resist the big storms in my life....
Am I , Can I ..

Destiny is in your hand

Never say Never
Never give up until the last second

I believe that I can fly
I believe that I can touch the sky
I believe that I can defeat the enemies and antagonist in my life
I believe that I can kill the adversaries who disturbing the peace of my life
I believe that I am the combatant of life

andychui loving u

想很快樂
想沒煩惱
想做個聰明寶寶
很想做到
前面尚有八千里很遠路途

andychui loving u

Soon after the Second World War , people were happy that peace could eventually come to them. However, they were too naive and lost their sense of crisis.
Cold War began and international tension increased. It was so terrible that two big powers , USA and USSR , would open a nucleur war. All men in the world could not survive.
When could peace come? I guess that peace would never come , what i could do is to prevent the destructive war from happening and try my best to protect the people in the world.
I should such awareness earlier. Peace would not be a free lunch. It involved massive and unimaginable tradeoff.

秋思馬致遠

枯籐老樹昏鴉，小橋流水人家，古道西風瘦馬。
夕陽西下，斷腸人在天涯。

孤村落日残霞①，轻烟老树寒鸦②，一点飞鸿影下。
青山绿水，白草红叶黄花。

andychui loving u

Courage and confidence
Hope and dream

andychui loving u

I believe I can fly
I believe I can touch the sky
I believe I can improve my mind
I believe i am fire

andychui loving u

I believe I can fly
I believe I can touch the sky
I believe I can improve my mind
I believe i am fire

andychui loving u

I believe I can fly
I believe I can touch the sky
I believe I can improve my mind
I believe i am fire

andychui loving u

I believe I can fly
I believe I can touch the sky
I believe I can improve my mind
I believe i am fire

andychui loving u

the more I experience , the more my weaknesses exposed

andychui loving u

Please give me 100 hours per day

andychui loving u

Please give me 100 hours per day

andychui loving u

想很快樂
想沒煩惱
想做個聰明寶寶
很想做到
前面尚有八千里很遠路途

chee chee=林志炫?~`1!!?

chee chee said....he is 林志炫....

andychui loving u

The O camp is over...very tired...
I have a little bit regret of going to the big O...
The weather is extremely annoying, it rained out of a sudden , you can do nothing on it , you cannot escape......
The games are repeated , the time waiting or transit is too long.
What can I gain? Actually, i cannot feel pleasure...I just want to go home in the second day of the ocamp.

Alright , it's over.

O camp, enjoyable or miserable?!

Tmr o camp
Why do i join big O?
My purpose is to meet new friends.However ,it is ironic that i usually can't take the initiative to communicate with strangers.
HaHa , andychui , be yourself is ok.

價值觀

"一生只可活一次, 為什麼要迫自己做不喜歡的事情?"
One of my friends asked me this question.
Think deeply, i always force myself to do something i don't like.
I like sports , but in fact, i spend most of my time on studying.
What do I really want? Have I ever tried to satisfy my wants?
Sports Star is only a untouchable dream.
It seems ridiculous and irrational to invest time and efforts on sports.

Now, I have to study accounting. I have never touched it before.I fear that I have to force myself to study it in my whole university life.
I have no fixed dream.Whether my dream is practical or not, i seldom walk towards it wholeheartedly.Always follow the trends....accounting is good?! then choose it lor...too impulsive .
迫自己做不喜歡的事情 is unavoidable for me..since i never make a decision according to my true feelings...i fear that my true feelings can't match with the reality.
I just want to survive in the cruel society.

The reason of misery

I am a pessimistic person.However , I am idealistic.
I want victory , I want the best. I keep on demanding myself, wanting to improve myself persisently.When i see my demerits, I feel depressed and frustrated.Sometimes i want myself to be perfect.

Pilot, do u find that i always praise u? It's becuase u have some qualities I don't have...or I want to have for long. I am greedy, so sometimes i feel unhappy. I fear failure. And then ..i fear to try....I don't want to be teased.

平凡是福?

Pressure and vexation

too much worries.......

前路險阻重重 ,

Don't afraid
You have Yourself...

andychui loving u

tired
want to take a rest

too much information ...too much things are waiting to be completed...
I can't handle.....

古龍

古龍：有時候體力的消耗反是一種補充。
I feel tired.Mentally tired, physically sleep cannot recover my exhausted soul.

andychui loving u

You must always rely on yourself, no one will help you!

andychui loving u

Zoneda ar!

andychui loving u

相信很多人都曾問過一個問題：「人生有何意義呢？」事實上，人生匆匆數
十寒暑，空手而來，空手而去，追求回來的名利轉眼便化為烏有，那麼人又何苦
要營營役役過一生呢？毫無疑問，這是很消極的想法，而且為了滿足人最基本的
需要，工作是不能避免的。

　　我想說的是「目標」對人生的重要。不用我多說，人死後不能帶走任何東西
，但難道你就能不工作嗎？若你沒有自己的目標，你自然感受不到你的人生有何
意義。自己很欣賞某廣告的一句說話：「只要有夢想，凡事可成真」，這正正點
出了目標對一個人的重要。如果你沒有「夢想」，你又怎可得到「成真」的快感
，當然你更加感受不到你人生的意義。

　　有些人對勝敗看得很重要，有些人則視名利如糞土。人的一生，難免亦會遇
上挑戰，成功固然是好，但我卻認為失敗所得到的經驗也是一生受用的。一個人
若未受過挫敗，就很可能連小小的風浪也捱不了。我就認為人的一生不應該但求
榮華富貴，只要能轟轟烈烈的活過，甚至可以千古留名，成又如何？敗又如何？
楚霸王項羽雖敗給劉邦，更被迫於烏江自刎而死，但他總算曾為自己的目標奮鬥
過，敗又如何？只要一生無憾。

　　其實，「目標」就是實是相等於「人生意義」。若你想知道你的「人生」有
何「意義」，請你先問問你自己有何「目標」。有著「目標」，你才有堅強、奮
鬥、生存下去的意志，要不然不是死了便一了百了嗎？當你在追尋著你的「目標
」時，你才可領略到你人生的真正「意義」。

andychui loving u

不知道人是否經過波折後，才會悟到人生的真諦呢？每個人都會有接受考驗的時候，最重要的是怎樣『豁出去』。上面蘇軾的一首詞《定風波》，使我覺得蘇軾是個樂觀的人。

　　蘇軾在宋神宗五年時，己被貶黃州兩年，他要自給自足，初時對於被貶一事覺得無辜，後來終於給他想通了，以一種閑適曠達的心情對待逆境。有一次到沙湖，途中遇雨，這首詞就是描寫途中遇雨的心情，並借此表達自己不怕風雨，順應自然，可見他是個樂觀豁達的人。

　　 我們平常處事，不要為小事而令自己不快，好像蘇軾一樣，要有達觀的態度，人便自然高興了。那麼，便有『也無風雨也無晴』的心境了。總而言之，我們要順應自然，不應太執著，抱著輕鬆的心情做事，才會事半功倍。

andychui loving u

三月七日，沙湖道中遇雨，雨具先去，同行皆狼狽，余獨不覺。已而遂晴，故作此。

莫聽穿林打葉聲，何妨吟嘯且徐行。竹杖芒鞋輕勝馬。誰怕？一蓑煙雨任平生。　　
料峭春風吹酒醒，微冷，山頭斜照卻相迎。回首向來蕭瑟處，歸去，也無風雨也無晴。

In reponse to seacow's post

miserable life in Hong Kong
you cannot escape , you can only tolerate
be a cow...a hardworking cow...and you can eat some grass , but the crops you grow are belong to the farmers..
the government doesn't have well planned economic policy .the government also ignores the enormous and serious wealth gap in Hong Kong.Rich people earn money easily with the help of the government(concession ploicy to encourage them to stay in Hong Kong) , while the poor people can only earn little money to maintain their daily living.
The government said economic prosperity is more important than political universial suffrage....Shit...stop saying rubbish words...Hong Kong can never has economic prosperity.
Disappointed to Hong Kong's future...do not want to live in such hell

andychui loving u

何處望神州？
滿眼風光北固樓。
千古興亡多少事，悠悠。
不盡長江滾滾流。

年少萬兜鍪，坐斷東南戰未休。
天下英雄誰敵手？曹劉
生子當如孫仲謀。

andychui loving u

你知唔知你好得意ar?

andychui loving u

啞哂- -

Dream

Do u like dream? Do u like daydreaming?
I like dream very much.or say I like sleeping very much.
I can experience many different things in the dream, interesting , happy, shocking, scary......
The most important is ..when u have a nightmare...u know that it is not real.So no matter how bad the situation in the dream is , i won't be afraid.
Having dream and sleeping is the escape from the reality.
Its give u a tempory break.
Maybe ur unhappiness and vexation may reflect on ur dream.But nevermind, I can control my dream sometimes , I can change them to be gd dream.....But can do so in the reality?
U can't control ur brain not to worry...about the future....about ur own friendship...many many thing..tiny or big.
Like sleeping .really like.

andychui loving u

Everything has its price, do u agree?
If u want pure maths A , u have to work very hard. U have to pay the price for the good result ( like Lesile).
Or...let's say ,if u want something, u have to struggle for them. Efforts , time ....

In the past, I believed so. I thought everything has its own price . If u work hard , u can get what u want.
However, i change my thoughts now. I don't know why.
Sometimes u have already tried your best, but the result is contradict to your hope.

andychui loving u

Morning Assembly

andychui loving u

1
CUHK 4240 Professional Accountancy
2
HKUST 5713 BBA Professional Accounting
3
CUHK 4202 Integrated Bachelor of Business Administration Programme
4
HKUST 5701 Bachelor of Business Administration
5
HKU 6781 Bachelor of Business Administration / Bachelor of Business Administration in Accounting and Finance
6
POLYU 3911 BBA (Hons) in Accountancy
7
POLYU 3466 BBA (Hons) in Accounting and Finance
8
HKBU 2644 BSSc (Hons) Communication - Chinese Journalism
9
CITYU 1016 BBA (Hons) Accountancy
10
CITYU 1145 BBA (Hons) Accountancy and Law
11
HKBU 2216 BBA (Hons) Accounting
12
CUHK 4056 History
13
CUHK 4850 Journalism and Communication
14
CUHK 4020 Cultural Studies
15
CUHK 4018 Chinese Language and Literature
16
HKU 6054 Bachelor of Arts
17
HKBU 2034 BA (Hons) History
18
HKBU 2723 BSSc (Hons) Geography
19
HKBU 2010 BA (Hons) Chinese Language and Literature
20
LU 7606 Bachelor of Arts (Honours) Cultural Studies
21
LU 7101 Bachelor of Arts (Honours) Chinese
22
LU 7709 Bachelor of Arts (Honours) History
23
POLYU 3090 HD in Hotel Management
24
CITYU 1963 Associate of Social Science in Social Work
25
HKIED 8258 Bachelor of Education (Honours) (Primary) Programme - Physical Education Major

Before re-prioritization

1 5701 Bachelor of Business Administration The H K Univ. of Sci. & Tech.
2 5713 BBA Professional Accounting The H K Univ. of Sci. & Tech.
3 2644 BSSc (Hons) Communication - Chinese Journalism Hong Kong Baptist University
4 4240 Professional Accountancy The Chinese University of HK
5 4202 Integrated Bachelor of Business Administration Programme The Chinese University of HK
6 6781 Bachelor of Business Administration / Bachelor of Business Administration in Accounting and Finance The University of Hong Kong
7 3911 BBA (Hons) in Accountancy The H K Polytechnic University
8 3466 BBA (Hons) in Accounting and Finance The H K Polytechnic University
9 1016 BBA (Hons) Accountancy City University of H K
10 1145 BBA (Hons) Accountancy and Law City University of H K
11 2216 BBA (Hons) Accounting Hong Kong Baptist University
12 4056 History The Chinese University of HK
13 4850 Journalism and Communication The Chinese University of HK
14 4020 Cultural Studies The Chinese University of HK
15 4018 Chinese Language and Literature The Chinese University of HK
16 6054 Bachelor of Arts The University of Hong Kong
17 2034 BA (Hons) History Hong Kong Baptist University
18 2723 BSSc (Hons) Geography Hong Kong Baptist University
19 2010 BA (Hons) Chinese Language and Literature Hong Kong Baptist University
20 7606 Bachelor of Arts (Honours) Cultural Studies Lingnan University
21 7101 Bachelor of Arts (Honours) Chinese Lingnan University
22 7709 Bachelor of Arts (Honours) History Lingnan University
23 3090 HD in Hotel Management The H K Polytechnic University
24 1963 Associate of Social Science in Social Work City University of H K
25 8258 Bachelor of Education (Honours) (Primary) Programme - Physical Education Major The H K Institute of Education

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全制霸!

頭文字D 可E la sin!

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人生就如一首歌曲,而歌曲的靈魂就是高和低音譜號,它也是我們生命中的父母.當我們隨著年齡的成長,我們看到和接觸到的人和事彷似是五線譜上每一個音符. 當然,一生重會有喜有悲和有高有低,這正好代表著每一首歌曲的音韻和節奏.假如每一個人也曾經愛過某人,我想他們必然不會忘記深刻的回憶.或許歌曲的旋律和歌詞能夠把那感覺融合回憶裡.他們在生命裡扮演不同的角色;在歌曲裡,不管是伴唱,獨唱,清唱,合唱還是純音樂,它也扮演著不同的角色.雖然你不知道我內心的歌曲是怎麼樣,可是當你閱讀我的日記時,我正在把我心裡的歌曲與你分享.

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聰明的女人總是會在愛人面前扮演著不同角色。當愛人不開心時，她可以像個大姐姐般地去安慰他，直到他的嘴角露出幾許笑容；當愛人生病時，又像母親一樣地把他抱在懷裡輕輕拍打他的雙肩，並給他煲上一鍋好湯，讓他暖暖的；不過當她自己有什麼委屈時，又會像個小孩子般在愛人面前哭泣，以博取他的呵護和安慰。
　　
　　1、老公是拿來愛的，不是拿來氣的。愛老公就是愛自己。
　　
　　2、老公想吃蘋果時馬上就去洗。經驗證明推來推去的結果不僅有傷和氣而且所消耗的時間和能量已經能洗完蘋果了。
　　
　　3、點菜時要明確說出想吃什麼。免得點完之後誰都不愛吃或者只有一方愛吃事後犯嘀咕。
　　
　　4、吵架時絕不說分手或者離婚，免得事後下不了台。要是我錯了，吵過之後，看他還死繃著臉，我就裝可愛，裝可憐，裝精靈鼠小弟，裝蠟筆小新，裝櫻桃小丸子，總之，就是死皮賴臉地往他身上粘。這招屢試不爽！要是我占理，他錯了，我就擺一副後娘臉，再適當賞他一些搭話的機會，GG會十分誠懇地向我道歉，誠懇到我繃不住臉。
　　
　　5、盡量不要用食物(特別是水果，拎著又沉)做禮物，免得吃完之後就忘記。
　　
　　6、吵架時盡量少發火多流淚。在老婆還是我女朋友的時候，每當她哭，我都會手足無措地干著急。我最怕女人哭了，所以每次她哭，我就馬上又是抱又是親又是哄的，還要扮猴子學小狗，可是結果她還要捏我咬我，說我是多管閒事活該，唉，真是不講理。
　　
　　7、一定要記住老公的生日(陽歷的和農歷的)，保證第一個向老公說生日快樂。
　　
　　8、養成一見老公就笑的習慣(可以想象和你一起散步時因為他越來越鼓的肚子遠遠看著讓人搞不清哪個是孕婦)。特別是下班回家開門時。
　　
　　9、需要老公陪同而老公不能陪同的時候想象自己是保家衛國者的女人，告訴他：你忙吧，我能行。
　　
　　10、軟磨硬泡的時候注意發揮女性特色。
　　
　　11、故意在他半睡半醒的時候親他並幫他蓋好被子。
　　
　　12、在他吹噓自己的時候假裝很崇拜他，並表現出對未來幸福生活充滿希望的樣子。其實，更多的男士鐘情於對女人炫耀自己的種種好處，這時只要聆聽就好了。因為他只是想讓你“崇拜”他一下，記得還要時常給他一個肯定的眼神。
　　
　　13、在你看電視或碟片看到故事裡的婚姻生活很悲慘的時候，想一下你丈夫對你好的時候，不在身邊的話就給他打個電話，在身邊的話，就趴在他身上哭一會，並且說，我們不要那樣好不好？
　　
　　14、在老公向你獻殷勤之後表現出特別興奮的樣子，並且說一句“老公你對我最好了！”以資鼓勵。
　　
　　15、偶爾的用不經意的語氣對老公說起諸如某位男同事剛來的時候想請你去喝咖啡，而你卻因為想要給你去買件T恤拒絕的事。
　　
　　16、既然已經選擇和他共度人生，就不要幻想改變他，能改變的只有自己。教育是徒勞的，感化是可行的。如果還是不行，在和他鬧翻前准備好退路。女人喜歡男人，這八成是錯不了的，但女人永遠不滿意男人，這卻是百分之百千真萬確的。女人總是希望按照自己的願望和想象來改造男人，尤其是改造自己的男友(即使成了丈夫也絕不例外)。本來嘛，別的男人跟我有什麼關系，而且改造起來總不如自己的男友方便，權當他是個試驗品好了。
　　
　　17、用他的錢健身買衣服和化妝品。在他眼裡至少你在每個年齡段都比上不足比下有余。而這一點只要你願意修飾是很容易做到的。男人樂意為女人的美麗買單。其實，真正的好男人，往往都很願意為自己心愛的女人花錢，因為那是他的一份快樂。在他眼裡，女人在花他的錢的時候，顯得最可愛，就像是怒放的花朵，分外嬌艷，男人為此感到滿足，感到自豪，感到自己的價值，感到自己掙錢的意義。
　　
　　18、在你無聊的時候找些對你有好處的事情做，多花錢也無所謂。切記不要選擇和男人聊天，一旦紅杏出牆，最好的結果是你常常陷入去與不去約會的兩難選擇。
　　
　　19、老公的缺點要一分為二的看。天下沒有絕對的缺點與優點。如果他懶惰，那麼他就會有更多的休息時間；如果他沒錢，那麼他會少些出軌的可能；如果他長得難看，就會少些第三者的可能；如果他沒有上進心，他會把全部注意力集中在你的身上。千萬別以為真的能有那種如同永不磨損型的雷達表一樣的男人。不是遇不到，而是真的沒有。但這並不是全盤否定“新好男人”的存在。男人，多少總有那麼一點點的缺點。找一個缺點也比較可愛的，找一個敢於把自己的缺點和盤托出展現在你面前的，就是最佳的選擇。
　　
　　20、男人在工作學習和思考的時候，不要試著讓老公的注意力轉移到你身上來。因為他們是為了共同的家奔波勞累，這時唯一能做的是給他寧靜的空間，可以去給他快喝干的水杯裡加水，或者去熬一鍋豬蹄銀耳湯，等他干完活，就著窗外的零星燈火喝一碗，他會感覺特別溫暖。

andychui loving u

18世紀英國文豪Samuel Johnson稱詞典編纂為success without applause, diligence without reward(無償勞作, 雖成無榮), 又稱編詞典旳人為unhappy mortals (不幸的噍類), harmless drudges (無害的苦工), 指的是慘淡經營充其量只指望無害的結果。
"不幸的噍類", "無害的苦工", 苦則苦矣! 然而, 有志於此道的學人會從單調、煩瑣、繁重、 艱辛的勞動中發掘樂趣, 尋求報償。樂趣在於遨遊英語語詞的海洋, 報償在於翱翔英語文化的天地, 語詞是音像生動的詩畫, 是引人入勝的故事, 是曲折有致的史話, 是確鑿可信的科學, 其中旳甘美我們在編纂《英漢大詞典》的過程中反復咀嚼,多少領略到了一些。

andychui loving u

18世紀英國文豪Samuel Johnson稱詞典編纂為success without applause, diligence without reward(無償勞作, 雖成無榮), 又稱編詞典旳人為unhappy mortals (不幸的噍類), harmless drudges (無害的苦工), 指的是慘淡經營充其量只指望無害的結果。
"不幸的噍類", "無害的苦工", 苦則苦矣! 然而, 有志於此道的學人會從單調、煩瑣、繁重、 艱辛的勞動中發掘樂趣, 尋求報償。樂趣在於遨遊英語語詞的海洋, 報償在於翱翔英語文化的天地, 語詞是音像生動的詩畫, 是引人入勝的故事, 是曲折有致的史話, 是確鑿可信的科學, 其中旳甘美我們在編纂《英漢大詞典》的過程中反復咀嚼,多少領略到了一些。

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回想七年的南官生活，當中苦樂參半，真如南柯一夢。在七年矇矇矓矓，糊裡糊塗的歲月之中，最足以縈懷的自己得遇名師、結良朋，實為人生快事。

thx FatKen

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31/5 The return of andychui loving u!!
Will love Andychui?
Will u miss Andychui?
Why don't love Andychui?
Why don't miss Andychui...
so kai..

成日都諗, 之前唔玩咪好囉, 但係次次得個諗字, 考完又玩過....

Always play....
I have set many targets for me in this holiday..such as learning chinese typing ...english ...Japanese...Pth..
but I am still very lazy now.
A person who is not firm and not suitable to shoulder big responsibility.

巴士阿叔

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S1vBjtPtAfE
this link is perfect!!
trust me!

巴士阿叔(有字幕)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YY6JIfLrvJc
I am love in it.
It's very interesting!

andychui loving u

Enjoy your body?!
If you hear somebody say that thing , you will think he is crazy.
However , have you ever thought about why crazy people are crazy?
Some because they had depressing and frustrated experience in real life....
Some because of the betray of the loved ones....
In their sky , they forget their unhappinese in reality.They create a beautiful world for them...
They wlll think that they have married a reliable man ( in reality , their husband always zone da her )......They have ulimited sky.
They don't care the views of us.they don't need to worry that they will be disdained by us.
If human's goal of life is to be happy , then they achieve that...
Many people are very clever , works so hard...but maybe they feel unhappy.
Maybe becoming crazy is a form of escaping from the cruel and anormal reality.
Do you want to be crazy?

andychui loving u

偷情
偉仔

人生是無奈的

"人生是無奈的" do you agree with that statment?
Sometimes when we are facing difficulties, you have to 學識妥協 or try your best to change the situation(never give up)?
For example , you have studied a lot , but the outcome may not be as good as you have expected.
You love a girl , but the girl doesn't love you or she has a boyfriend already.
You have spent 20 years or above on studying , but you can't even get a satisfying job in the society. what you lack is only an opportunity to prove your ability.

You want to be a writer , or a dancer , or a drawer ...but you eventually choose BBA in the jupas. You have to 妥協 with the materistic society . You hate yourself , but at the same time you tell yourself" maybe it is better than my original dream"....

The fact is what you think in your mind seldom can be acheived in reality.
The ironic fact is that what you genuinely want to achieve may fail , but what you don't expect can be achieved surprisingly .
Have you ever felt depressed , frustrated?
Have you ever thought of escaping from the cruel reality?

We have no choice , sometimes we have to walk a way that you are reluctant to.
we have to follow the reality. We dare not challenge the reality and create our own world.
We are conservative. We dream of a lot of things but never , never strive hard to do so.

What is my dream? I don't know. Earn a lot of money? It's the dream of everybody, but not my unique and individual dream.
I have no dream. I 妥協 with the reality..or my dream is washed away by the reality.

ZONE DA!

It's end of the morning assembly.
It's really the end of my secondary school's life.
What should I do?
I don't have much happiness, just feel as usual.
Life still goes on.

I still want to learn. Ken Leung influences greatly as he treat learning as a lifelong target.
I am eager to upgrade myself , to equip myself , to improve myself persistently.

Enjoyment or suffering

Geography...
It is easier to get good results in geo , since one piece of efforts results in one marks ..
But compare with history , it's content is infinite....without limits...
But I have no choice, I must zone da it.
I don't want to be zoned , I want to enjoy geo's body!

Go ahead! My dear.Don't be afraid, don't be lazy , never give up!

Begin to have the end

I will remember today.
It is the end of the end.
Rather, it is the beginning of the end of my life.
The end of my harsh preparation and the beginning of fighting and struggling.

andychui loving u

心動---是第一眼看見你時
心扉---在認識你之後而敞開
心跳---則因你的出現加速
心迷---關於你所有的事物
心情---隨著你而喜怒哀樂
心疼---是為了你眉目深鎖
心房---堆積著你我的回憶
心事---僅想與你一起分享
心靈---被你的純真所淨化
心思---竟是為你淡然一笑
心願---則是願你諸事順遂
心海---波動著想你的思潮
心酸---於你悄然離去之時
心痛---是為你的匆匆來到
心悸---在於你離去的眼神
心痴---是你等待我的執念
心聲---是對你的苦苦哀求
心碎---就在你真忘卻我時
心---早就給你了
白色情人節...為自己心儀的對象表示點意思吧!!...祝...情人節喜樂

andychui loving u

Sometimes, i just feel that living is a difficult job.
Ironically, what you expect or what you are eager to achieve always contadictatory to the reality.
Do you feel miserable or depressed when you experience a great failure?
Life is stressful.It depends on how we react.Somebody just feel indifferent to the challenges in life.Somebody cannot accept the harsh reality and find a easy way out, while somebody can be persevering , patient and indomitable. How about you?
For the target of my life, that is to improve myself persistenly. Everyday is new.
I cherih my valuable opportunity to study , to learn , to improve.

andychui loving u

我習慣作夢，習慣了解夢中的自己，對我而言，作夢的過程就像是裸露自我的一場革命。
我害怕從夢中了解自己真實的慾望，夢的呈現等同自我檢視般嚴苛。我害怕允許夢裡的胡作非為，也因此睡眠對我而言是異常辛苦的，因為我一再的壓抑自我慾望。雖然事實上思考是無罪的，夢發生的一切也是無罪的；但在道德檢視上，心中的秘密警察卻是相當潔癖與挑剔，現實中有太多人已經無法容許任何的不正常出現。
即使只是在夢裡，我們仍然有罪，我們必須純潔無暇，我們必須沒有任何犯罪的可能性。這一切都是從佛洛伊得開始，他揭示作夢也帶有人的意識與行為意義在裡頭後，夢象徵秘密，是一個無法再高談闊論的世界。
我一直認為秒針的走動是半夜的心跳聲，是那麼容易令人惶恐與膽顫心驚。
依稀記得小時候有一次半夜無法入睡，起身看著姊姊的惺忪睡容與眼球在眼皮下轉動的痕跡時，有一種無知的害怕成為我的秘密。
我往往有意識的去操控自己的夢境，以為自己是喜歡反叛的，喜歡在夢裡與自己敵對；事實上，我只是反叛自己的反叛，諜對諜的遊戲只是在控制自己合乎倫常。
究竟人睡著後到了哪一個世界？究竟人睡著後是否可以脫離現實而肆無忌憚？我被一種理性行為給框架住，我被一種機械的眼睛緊盯，我的意識也不能犯罪。這種緊張感就像害怕被思想控制般難受，或許在每個人夢中都有個秘密警察，監督任何不倫理的事情發生，然後，我們也真正失去自由。
或許那是因為在這講究理想的世界裡，我們被慫恿著只接觸陽光面，因而忘記光明是黑暗所產生。不合乎倫常不應以「寬恕」、「原諒」來解決，那只是替我們的想像力定罪，增添我們的羞恥感，使我們一再地、一再地更厭惡自己。
假如能夠接受不同的自己，而不去定義好壞，不去迎合標準，不去訴說倫常，那麼再檢視自己的時候必定更自由。
我們沒有犯罪，我們必須在夢中進行一場革命，打倒僵化的自己。

刑場

這天是中七的最後上課天。

總是看著同學由親變疏，
總是看著同學奮發有為，

這天是同學們的難忘天，
他們都微笑著跟我拍照，
我們都高舉勝利的手勢，
你們都興奮地互相鼓勵，
大家都喜笑顏開的渡過。

每年也親眼看著師兄弟、師姐妹趕住刑場，
親眼看著他們血染刑場，一住不歸。
劊子手不過是手執一支血淋淋的筆芯，
隨意在紙上一揮，便把你們的性命晝走。

在刑場上的我，目睹友人的遭遇，
愉悅沾不上身，黯然失色的躲藏，
怕再見這屠殺，怕被那哀音感染。

你們都蕭蕭的揮手離去，
我想伸出那震抖而軟弱的手把你們按止，
我不願再看那血流如注的那天，慘不忍睹的那天，
要不然，請你們振翅飛翔。

但可以的話，我想自私地把你們留著，
請不要離我而去，
不要走，
不要............

the best memory

The completion of my secondary schooling gave me deep feelings.
The most valuable thing is that I meet some good friends.
They teach me a lot of things , and I feel warm and comfortable when I get along with them.
In this materialistic society , friendship is something you cannot buy.
Friendship can be complicated, but it can be lovely either.

andychui loving u

人生是什麼？
有人曾經說過，人生是一項旅程，總是在尋找自己存活於這個世界上的真正義意和目的。
也有人曾說過，人生像演戲，每時每刻都在扮演著不同性質，不同類形的角色，有奸，有忠。
在我自己看來，人生是一場又一場的夢兒，夢醒了，又再次睡下，睡了又再次醒過來，永永遠遠的重覆下去，直至死亡，人生終結者的到來。
當我作了一個苦澀的夢兒時，總怕下一個夢兒也是一樣的苦，一樣的令我心傷；但若果所作的夢兒是歡樂的，總是盼望著下一個精彩夢兒的來臨，有時什至會自己去找尋那些能帶給我喜樂的夢。
可是，作苦夢作樂夢並不是我們凡人所能控制的呀，人生本來就不是屬於我們，夢當然也不能隨著我們的意思而去改變。
淡然的過著每一天，隨性一點，甚至嘗試去習慣人生，學著去面對。
這個嘛，或許就是享受人生的不二法門。

《後記》
『人生』這一文，是在車子上想出來的，還只是第一次，所以有點生疏。
但於此時此刻，我已盡量的去作得淡然一些了，畢竟人生所世，苦事總會比樂事多。

輕狂如我,心傷誰知

秋天的你輕輕飄過進佔我心裡,
我卻每天等你望你知道我是誰,
冬天雖次仿彿想你看你而心醉,
你到天那方發現我總與你伴隨.........
憂傷的你拋開一切要往哪方去 ,
與你那些真摯熱愛早變了夢蕾 ,
可惜心裡不知不覺已進退失据 ,
到了這天總也沒法刻意愛著誰 ..........